Laugh, Or Cry

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We’ve all had those moments where things get to a point where we have to laugh. I’ve done it recently. Unfortunately, I can’t remember what it was. I think it was something at work. Now I remember. It was when I was asked to do something similar to another thing I was asked to do. I had stirred up a bit of an issue following direction from something else. I laughed because following that same direction would cause more issues. It’s something I’ve been pushing back on for a while and it was all coming to ahead. I had to just laugh instead of get frustrated.

I had a discussion with a person on Friday about how we were doing something. It wasn’t getting them what we needed but was working perfectly for what we needed. I could tell the person was frustrated and tried to interject some lighthearted comments that were clearly that way. The person picked up on them and I think appreciated them. I like lightheartedness I think it breaks up the monotomy and mood around frustrating things. Gotta life life a little.

Seek Out Shipwrecks

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I’m reminded of the song The Light by Disturbed.

The idea is that darkness will show you the light. Opportunities that we didn’t have before we get from some form of suffering or tragedy. We’ve all had these life defining moments. I had a real shitty six months that led me to improve my life. I had my roommate bail on me unexpectedly, my girlfriend broke up with me, and I got in trouble at work. I started reading and listening to self improvement content. It was a defining moment that changed the path I was on in life. When I’m suffering I try to see it as an opportunity to be better.

Respect The Past, But Be Open To The Future

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Conservative ideas were cutting edge when they were first introduced. I think about this often when looking to solve problems. There are tried and true ways of doing things. Often they work well. There are other times though that things can get done in a more efficient or effective way. A way that hasn’t been tried before. This is where creativity comes in. While I’m not an artist there is creativity in the way I tackle things or solve problems.

Pillage From All Sources

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Where ideas or thoughts come from doesn’t matter. Just because Brad Pitt says something doesn’t make it anymore special than if someone not nearly as famous says it. This is what I based the Exploring Information Security podcast on. I would grab all sorts of professionals in the infosec field. I got people who have gotten their name in conferences and on Netflix shows. If heard or read someone say something interesting and thought the content was good, I’d interview them. I’ve had Samy Kamkar (he was on the Netlfix show White Rabbit) on the show. I’ve also had Brandon Wilson who spoke at Knoxville BSides in 2017 to a small crowd. He learned how to hack a car from the 1990s. To me it didn’t matter the status of people just what they would provide my audience. It’s easy to overlook people without status. Often times there are a lot of great ideas we’ve never heard of from people who don’t have a huge following or platform.

Daily Stoic(s)

I am blogging everyday (or nearly everyday) on The Daily Stoic.

Yesterday - Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff

Don’t focus on things that don’t matter. This is a bit of a conflict for me because what doesn’t matter? I like playing video games. Others may see them as something that doesn’t matter. I believe (hope) it is what matters to me. Video games are something that matters to me. Some of the things that don’t matter to me could be things like social media or raging about things that are out of my control. There’s a balance I think. Video games are valuable to me, yet I can spend too much time on them and ignore other parts of my life that matter to me. Maybe I’m sweating the details too much.

Today - It’s In Your Self Interest

I am trying to apply what’s in my best interest to staying up too late. It’s difficult because I often feel like what I’m doing is in my own self interest at the time. I wake up the next morning with regret and disappointment. I’m hoping if enough of that happens it stops. I think it’s easy to say and hard to put into practice.