Daily Stoic(s)

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Yesterday - Our Sphere of Impulses

We must learn from everyone. I try to keep this in mind when I’m frustrated or letting my ego get to me. I have much to learn about everything. I’m reminded of when I was doing the SANS SEC401 course. I had been in security for three years at that point and in IT for nearly 14 years. I thought the course would be easy and not worth my time. Boy was I wrong. I filled in a lot of gaps I had about technology and made me a better person. Now I recommend it for anyone that hasn’t taken it regardless of the years in IT. That recommendation helps me understand who has an ego problem and who doesn’t,

Today - Real Good is Simple

Living a simple life can make us happy. While we might think wealth and fame is a cure all for our hardship, it actually has it’s own problems. I was just watching the Taylor Swift documentary on Netflix. It’s not all happy times. There are quite a few rough patches that she has to navigate in the public view. I’m not big on fame, because of that. Imagine me being famous and going through what I went through last year. I would have fallen apart and a lot of celebrities do (example Britney Spears). I’m grateful I didn’t have to go through in the spotlight.

Opinions Are Like...

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Interesting thought exercise from the stoic today. What if we were to just be instead of have opinions. Opinions are shaped by our beliefs and how we grew up. They often lead to unwelcome emotions like anger and hatred. What if instead we just are and not worry about our opinions. We take each situation as it’s own unique experience. Going through coronavirus, I’ve had my opinions. It’s not a popular one because others have a very different opinion of how things are handled. I hop on Twitter and there’s a lot of negative opinions about the situation. I usually only stay on for a short period of time, so as to avoid my own negative emotions.

Instead what I’m going to try to do is leave my opinions out of life. My opinions about people and situations. Instead look at it from a just being who or what they are. I’m curious how much less negativity I’d have in my life. I won’t be perfect because I’m human. Then again maybe that’s an opinion also.,

No Harm, No Foul

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We can choose how we respond to the words people choose. Outside my CIOs office is a printed phrase, “Assume positive intent.” I think it’s noble and often underutilized by some of the people I work with. Then again, I should be using the phrase when I hear things going on within my organization. I should take that advice and assume people are just trying to do what they feel best. Sometimes that may be misguided.

Observe Cause and Effect

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What thoughts are constructive and destructive? I need to look at my thoughts and understand the reason for those thoughts. I need to identify when I have biases or other influence affecting my thoughts. I feel like I’ve been working on this for a while and I haven’t made a lot of progress. It can be frustrating. I have made progress though and that’s something to think about.

Pay Your Taxes

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Everything has a tax. I’m having to remind myself that lately. Just an hour or so ago, I got some feedback on a presentation I had done a couple months ago. I had screwed up explaining something. The feedback came from an executive. I didn’t handle it well because this same executive has questioned my stuff before. I take great pride in my work and the effort and detail I put into it. That has gotten me promotions and accolades all the way up to the CEO of the company. I blew and didn’t handle it well.

After taking a moment to reflect, I realized I had screwed up and I was allowing my own ego in the way. I’m learning to handle these things better. That’s not the stoic for today. The stoic is that the more successful you become the more scrutinized you will be. This has been a hard realization for me and something I am working on.